Have you thought about getting a malinois? While many owners of the breed try to put people off from owning one, and many people admire them in impressive training videos, what are they really like to live with? They can have an off switch with the right training. Do you have to be a super human to own one? NO, I don't believe so. If you're prepared they can make a fantastic dog as long as you put in the training, like any breed!